439 Responses to “Does the Partner or Depression Cause the Breakup?” Read below or add a comment. DATING APPS?? It is because of this and the understanding your site has provided me with that I have — four months after he has broken up with me again during an episode — decided not to initiate any contact. Would you happen to still remember when you sent the song? He just texted me as I was typing this. I feel like that was the worst possible thing to do now, I should have stayed and supported him. With the help of a therapist, she could get it all out, and I could sit there and take it without trying to fight her off or get angry in return. The police were involved and I became very frightened.